"I like being a woman, even in a man's world. After all, men can't wear dresses, but we can wear the pants"
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The first clause, “I like being a woman, even in a man’s world,” acknowledges the rigged architecture without asking permission from it. She doesn’t pitch womanhood as martyrdom or as a grievance; she frames it as preference, even pleasure. That matters for someone whose career unfolded inside industries that routinely monetize female glamour while policing female autonomy. For a Black woman who became a global symbol of “mainstream” excellence, the stakes were doubled: be palatable, be perfect, don’t be difficult. The sentence pushes back against that pressure by insisting on comfort in her own identity.
Then comes the sly reversal: “men can’t wear dresses, but we can wear the pants.” It’s not about fabric; it’s about range. Men’s gender performance is presented as narrow, brittle, easily threatened. Women’s, by contrast, is flexible enough to move between codes: softness and command, spectacle and control. “Wear the pants” is the old idiom of household authority; Houston flips it into a claim of strategic advantage. The humor keeps it from sounding like a lecture, but the subtext is pointed: in a world built around men, women still find ways to expand the rules, and sometimes end up running the room while everyone pretends they aren’t.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Houston, Whitney. (2026, January 15). I like being a woman, even in a man's world. After all, men can't wear dresses, but we can wear the pants. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-being-a-woman-even-in-a-mans-world-after-21911/
Chicago Style
Houston, Whitney. "I like being a woman, even in a man's world. After all, men can't wear dresses, but we can wear the pants." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-being-a-woman-even-in-a-mans-world-after-21911/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like being a woman, even in a man's world. After all, men can't wear dresses, but we can wear the pants." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-being-a-woman-even-in-a-mans-world-after-21911/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








