"I like looking feminine and I enjoy being a role model. I enjoy being a woman. It all comes down to having the confidence to be who you are"
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The “role model” clause does double duty. Freeman knows visibility is never neutral, especially for a Black Australian woman who carried the weight of Indigenous representation at the Sydney Olympics. She’s acknowledging the burden without sounding bitter: being watched can be exhausting, but it can also be turned outward as permission for others. The repetition of “I enjoy” is strategic insistence, a refusal to apologize for pleasure in identity.
Then she snaps it into a universal without making it vague: “It all comes down to…confidence.” Not talent, not approval, not fitting the brand. Confidence here isn’t Instagram self-esteem; it’s armor and agency, the internal backing to withstand commentary, expectations, and politics. The subtext is blunt: the world will try to script you. Your job is to keep the pen.
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Freeman, Cathy. (2026, January 15). I like looking feminine and I enjoy being a role model. I enjoy being a woman. It all comes down to having the confidence to be who you are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-looking-feminine-and-i-enjoy-being-a-role-47557/
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Freeman, Cathy. "I like looking feminine and I enjoy being a role model. I enjoy being a woman. It all comes down to having the confidence to be who you are." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-looking-feminine-and-i-enjoy-being-a-role-47557/.
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"I like looking feminine and I enjoy being a role model. I enjoy being a woman. It all comes down to having the confidence to be who you are." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-looking-feminine-and-i-enjoy-being-a-role-47557/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






