"I like looking feminine and I enjoy being a role model. I enjoy being a woman. It all comes down to having the confidence to be who you are"
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Freeman’s line lands with the quiet force of someone who has been policed from every angle: by sport’s demand for hardness, by a media culture that reads women’s bodies as public property, and by a national gaze that turned her into a symbol long before she was allowed to just be an athlete. When she says she likes “looking feminine,” it’s not a coy aside; it’s a small act of reclamation. Elite sport still sells a narrow version of seriousness that often treats femininity as a distraction or a weakness. Freeman refuses the false choice. She can run like the wind and still enjoy presenting herself on her own terms.
The “role model” clause does double duty. Freeman knows visibility is never neutral, especially for a Black Australian woman who carried the weight of Indigenous representation at the Sydney Olympics. She’s acknowledging the burden without sounding bitter: being watched can be exhausting, but it can also be turned outward as permission for others. The repetition of “I enjoy” is strategic insistence, a refusal to apologize for pleasure in identity.
Then she snaps it into a universal without making it vague: “It all comes down to…confidence.” Not talent, not approval, not fitting the brand. Confidence here isn’t Instagram self-esteem; it’s armor and agency, the internal backing to withstand commentary, expectations, and politics. The subtext is blunt: the world will try to script you. Your job is to keep the pen.
The “role model” clause does double duty. Freeman knows visibility is never neutral, especially for a Black Australian woman who carried the weight of Indigenous representation at the Sydney Olympics. She’s acknowledging the burden without sounding bitter: being watched can be exhausting, but it can also be turned outward as permission for others. The repetition of “I enjoy” is strategic insistence, a refusal to apologize for pleasure in identity.
Then she snaps it into a universal without making it vague: “It all comes down to…confidence.” Not talent, not approval, not fitting the brand. Confidence here isn’t Instagram self-esteem; it’s armor and agency, the internal backing to withstand commentary, expectations, and politics. The subtext is blunt: the world will try to script you. Your job is to keep the pen.
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| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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