"I like my players to be married and in debt. That's the way you motivate them"
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The intent is partly practical and partly performative. Banks is signaling an old-school belief that the best competitor is the one who can’t afford to drift. In a sport where long seasons blur into routine, he’s arguing that urgency is engineered off the field. The laugh comes from the bluntness, but the subtext is transactional: if players have dependents and bills, they’ll accept pain, grind through travel, and take fewer risks with management. It’s a quip that reveals how teams have historically preferred “reliable” men - stable, domesticated, predictable - over free-floating talent that might demand leverage, flirt with dissent, or simply prioritize life over baseball.
Context matters: Banks played in an era when athletes weren’t yet the brand-architects and labor negotiators they became later. Before mega-salaries normalized wealth and mobility, debt was plausible pressure, and marriage was treated as character evidence. The joke works because it’s true enough to sting: motivation, in this worldview, isn’t self-actualization. It’s fear of letting everyone down.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Banks, Ernie. (2026, January 17). I like my players to be married and in debt. That's the way you motivate them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-my-players-to-be-married-and-in-debt-thats-51546/
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Banks, Ernie. "I like my players to be married and in debt. That's the way you motivate them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-my-players-to-be-married-and-in-debt-thats-51546/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like my players to be married and in debt. That's the way you motivate them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-my-players-to-be-married-and-in-debt-thats-51546/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










