"I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward"
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The intent feels less like a grand revelation than a calibration. “I like parties” signals openness, even appetite for connection; the pivot “but I’m shy” yanks the curtain back on the cost of that appetite. It’s a compact portrait of ambivalence: desire colliding with temperament. The phrase “standing around” is doing heavy lifting, evoking passivity and the peculiar paralysis of being visible while feeling unseen. “Feeling awkward” is almost comically plain, which is the point - it refuses the polished language of celebrity interviews and opts for the vocabulary of anyone who has ever checked their phone to look busy.
The subtext is about performance, and not just the kind on camera. Parties demand a role: the witty guest, the charming acquaintance, the effortlessly at-ease body. Bergin’s confession hints at the gap between public persona and private wiring, and it lands because it punctures the myth that charisma is a constant state rather than a situational mask people learn to wear.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bergin, Michael. (2026, January 17). I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/
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Bergin, Michael. "I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




