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Daily Inspiration Quote by Michael Bergin

"I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward"

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There is something quietly disarming about admitting you like the thing that makes you uncomfortable. Bergin’s line turns the party - shorthand for glamour, networking, and effortless cool - into a setting for mild panic and self-surveillance. Coming from an actor, it reads as a small act of deflation: the person assumed to be socially fluent confesses to doing what so many people do at gatherings, hovering at the edges and rehearsing how to look normal.

The intent feels less like a grand revelation than a calibration. “I like parties” signals openness, even appetite for connection; the pivot “but I’m shy” yanks the curtain back on the cost of that appetite. It’s a compact portrait of ambivalence: desire colliding with temperament. The phrase “standing around” is doing heavy lifting, evoking passivity and the peculiar paralysis of being visible while feeling unseen. “Feeling awkward” is almost comically plain, which is the point - it refuses the polished language of celebrity interviews and opts for the vocabulary of anyone who has ever checked their phone to look busy.

The subtext is about performance, and not just the kind on camera. Parties demand a role: the witty guest, the charming acquaintance, the effortlessly at-ease body. Bergin’s confession hints at the gap between public persona and private wiring, and it lands because it punctures the myth that charisma is a constant state rather than a situational mask people learn to wear.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bergin, Michael. (2026, January 17). I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/

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Bergin, Michael. "I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/.

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"I like parties, but I'm shy, and I often find myself standing around, feeling awkward." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-parties-but-im-shy-and-i-often-find-myself-69739/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Michael Bergin (born March 19, 1969) is a Actor from USA.

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