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Daily Inspiration Quote by Fisher Stevens

"I like people and get along, and I'm afraid to express my anger and my rage"

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There’s a quietly brutal self-portrait hiding inside that breezy, likable cadence. Fisher Stevens frames himself as someone who “gets along,” the kind of social glue person our culture routinely rewards: agreeable, easy, low-friction. Then he drops the cost of that persona in the second clause. “Afraid” doesn’t mean he lacks anger; it means the anger is present enough to be threatening. The fear is of what might happen if the mask slips, if the good-companion role can’t absorb the pressure.

The line works because it refuses the usual redemption arc. He doesn’t say he’s learning to communicate better or “working on it.” He names a contradiction: warmth and suppression in the same breath. That juxtaposition feels especially actor-specific. An actor’s job is to manage impression, to read the room, to deliver emotion on cue. Off-camera, that training can curdle into over-accommodation: staying pleasant, staying employable, staying wanted. Rage becomes something you perform safely in a scene, not something you’re allowed to own in your own life.

There’s also a generational subtext: a certain 20th-century masculine etiquette where anger is either weaponized or swallowed, but rarely articulated with precision. Stevens is pointing to the third option he can’t access yet: anger as information. The “I like people” isn’t just a virtue statement; it’s the reason the anger feels dangerous. If connection is the identity, conflict reads like annihilation.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevens, Fisher. (2026, January 17). I like people and get along, and I'm afraid to express my anger and my rage. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-people-and-get-along-and-im-afraid-to-56702/

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Stevens, Fisher. "I like people and get along, and I'm afraid to express my anger and my rage." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-people-and-get-along-and-im-afraid-to-56702/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like people and get along, and I'm afraid to express my anger and my rage." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-people-and-get-along-and-im-afraid-to-56702/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Fisher Stevens (born November 27, 1963) is a Actor from USA.

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