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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mae West

"I like restraint, if it doesn't go too far"

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Mae West turns “restraint” into a flirtation, not a virtue. The line snaps like a garter: it borrows the language of propriety, then immediately yanks it toward pleasure. “I like restraint” sounds like a concession to the moral guardians who policed women’s speech and sexuality in her era; the tag “if it doesn’t go too far” punctures that concession with a smirk. The joke works because restraint is supposed to be the thing that stops you from going “too far.” West rewires it into an accessory, something you might enjoy precisely because it heightens the prospect of crossing a line.

The intent is self-protective and provocative at once. Under the Hollywood Production Code and a culture eager to punish female desire, West perfected the art of plausible deniability: she could stand in the bright light of “good taste” while leaving a trail of innuendo behind her. The subtext isn’t just sexual; it’s power. She frames boundaries as negotiable, and crucially, as her preference. Restraint becomes something she chooses, not something imposed on her.

Context matters: West’s persona was built on playing the “bad girl” who remains unbothered by judgment. This quip is a miniature version of that project: a one-liner that mocks censorship, mocks prudishness, and mocks the idea that a woman’s appetite needs supervision. It’s comedy as leverage, a wink that doubles as a challenge.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Mae. (2026, January 17). I like restraint, if it doesn't go too far. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-restraint-if-it-doesnt-go-too-far-28602/

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West, Mae. "I like restraint, if it doesn't go too far." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-restraint-if-it-doesnt-go-too-far-28602/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like restraint, if it doesn't go too far." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-restraint-if-it-doesnt-go-too-far-28602/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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