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Creativity Quote by Holly Near

"I like this life. I like it when it's hard, and I like it better when it's not, but I know you don't get the sweet part without the bitter"

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Holly Near’s line lands like a chorus you can sing without believing in miracles. It’s not optimism; it’s consent. “I like this life” is a decision, not a mood, and she immediately stress-tests it: hard, not hard, either way. The craft is in how she refuses the glamour of struggle while still honoring what it produces. Hardship isn’t romanticized as character-building. It’s simply named as part of the deal.

Near’s subtext is activist-earned: a life spent in movement spaces teaches you that hope has to be portable, not precious. “I like it when it’s hard” reads less like a taste for suffering than a recognition of the clarity that hardship can force: priorities sharpen, community tightens, stakes become legible. Then she pivots to the relief of ease without guilt. That matters in cultures of protest and performance where exhaustion can become a badge. She’s giving permission to enjoy the “not” - the quiet stretch, the laugh, the mundane safety - without treating it as a betrayal of the struggle.

The final clause does the heavy lifting: “you don’t get the sweet part without the bitter.” It’s a folk proverb rewritten as emotional policy. Sweetness isn’t promised as a reward for pain; it’s framed as inseparable from it, like harmony needs tension. Coming from a musician, that’s also a structural truth: the song moves because it resolves. Near’s intent is to keep listeners inside the whole register of living, refusing both cynicism and saccharine inspiration.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Near, Holly. (2026, January 14). I like this life. I like it when it's hard, and I like it better when it's not, but I know you don't get the sweet part without the bitter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-this-life-i-like-it-when-its-hard-and-i-55618/

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Near, Holly. "I like this life. I like it when it's hard, and I like it better when it's not, but I know you don't get the sweet part without the bitter." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-this-life-i-like-it-when-its-hard-and-i-55618/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like this life. I like it when it's hard, and I like it better when it's not, but I know you don't get the sweet part without the bitter." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-this-life-i-like-it-when-its-hard-and-i-55618/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Holly Near (born June 6, 1949) is a Musician from USA.

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