"I like to be bought flowers and taken out for dinner. I like a man to be a gentleman. I don't like to be treated as if I am brainless. I like to be respected and to give respect"
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The intent is practical and a little confrontational: she’s staking out terms for intimacy in a culture that loves “gentleman” aesthetics as long as they come bundled with a silent woman. By explicitly rejecting being treated as brainless, Stone exposes the bait-and-switch that often shadows traditional dating norms: perform chivalry, expect compliance. Her version of “gentleman” isn’t about opening doors; it’s about recognizing interiority.
Context matters because Stone’s public image has long been filtered through sex-symbol mythology, tabloid appetite, and the way Hollywood rewards women for being desirable but punishes them for being articulate about desire. The line “and to give respect” is the quiet rebuttal to the stereotype that setting boundaries is hostility. She’s not asking for worship; she’s insisting on reciprocity.
What makes the quote work is its plainness. No manifesto, no theory, just everyday scenes - dinner, flowers, conversation - used as a litmus test for equality. It’s romance as a negotiation between adults, not a pageant with one person cast as decoration.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stone, Sharon. (2026, January 15). I like to be bought flowers and taken out for dinner. I like a man to be a gentleman. I don't like to be treated as if I am brainless. I like to be respected and to give respect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-be-bought-flowers-and-taken-out-for-157277/
Chicago Style
Stone, Sharon. "I like to be bought flowers and taken out for dinner. I like a man to be a gentleman. I don't like to be treated as if I am brainless. I like to be respected and to give respect." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-be-bought-flowers-and-taken-out-for-157277/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I like to be bought flowers and taken out for dinner. I like a man to be a gentleman. I don't like to be treated as if I am brainless. I like to be respected and to give respect." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-be-bought-flowers-and-taken-out-for-157277/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.





