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Love & Passion Quote by Courtney Love

"I like to behave in an extremely normal, wholesome manner for the most part in my daily life. Even if mentally I'm consumed with sick visions of violence, terror, sex and death"

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Courtney Love is describing a split-screen existence: the public-facing self who performs “extremely normal, wholesome” behavior, and the private mind lit up with “sick visions.” The phrasing is doing two things at once. First, it mocks the cultural demand that women, especially infamous women, stay palatable. “Wholesome” is a loaded word in celebrity culture: it’s less a personality trait than a permission slip. Love signals she can play that role “for the most part,” but she doesn’t grant it moral authority.

Second, she’s smuggling in an argument about imagination and appetite. By stacking “violence, terror, sex and death” in one breath, she refuses the neat moral filing system that separates “artistic” darkness from “taboo” darkness. The list reads like both a confession and a setlist: the same volatile materials that power rock music, tabloid narratives, and gothic mythology. Love isn’t claiming to act on these visions; she’s claiming ownership of having them. That matters in a culture that often treats a woman’s interior life as evidence in a trial.

The subtext is defensive and aggressive at once: don’t mistake surface manners for innocence, and don’t mistake intrusive thoughts for guilt. Coming from Love, whose career has been haunted by public suspicion and spectacle, the line also functions as preemptive media critique. If you want a monster, she implies, you’ll invent one anyway. She’d rather narrate the contradiction herself than be reduced to it.

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Love, Courtney. (2026, January 17). I like to behave in an extremely normal, wholesome manner for the most part in my daily life. Even if mentally I'm consumed with sick visions of violence, terror, sex and death. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-behave-in-an-extremely-normal-wholesome-51064/

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Love, Courtney. "I like to behave in an extremely normal, wholesome manner for the most part in my daily life. Even if mentally I'm consumed with sick visions of violence, terror, sex and death." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-behave-in-an-extremely-normal-wholesome-51064/.

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"I like to behave in an extremely normal, wholesome manner for the most part in my daily life. Even if mentally I'm consumed with sick visions of violence, terror, sex and death." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-like-to-behave-in-an-extremely-normal-wholesome-51064/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Courtney Love (born July 9, 1964) is a Musician from USA.

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