"I like to think that if I were gay I would be out. Rupert Everett-style"
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That’s the intent: to signal allyship without taking any actual risk. By framing queerness as an alternate costume he’d wear confidently, he turns coming out into a personality choice, not a consequence-laden act shaped by family, money, safety, and industry power. The subtext is reassurance - to progressive audiences and to himself - that he’s the kind of man who wouldn’t be threatened by homosexuality, even hypothetically. It’s also a subtle flex, because it implies the only barrier to his “Everett-style” outness is the minor inconvenience of being straight.
Context matters: Hollywood has long rewarded straight men for playing at queerness in interviews while punishing actual queerness in casting, especially for leading men. Everett himself has spoken about how being openly gay limited his career options. Affleck’s quip unintentionally exposes that asymmetry: it’s easy to claim you’d be fearless when the fear is theoretical. The line works as a cultural snapshot of early-2000s liberal masculinity - well-meaning, performative, and still dependent on celebrity proxies to make queerness feel safe and stylish.
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