"I liked myself better when I wasn't me"
About this Quote
The phrasing is deceptively casual. "Liked myself better" is the language of personal taste, not crisis, which is precisely why it stings. It frames self-esteem as a fickle preference, something that can swing with mood, age, public scrutiny, or the private disappointments no one claps for. Then the twist: "when I wasn't me". It’s not just nostalgia for youth; it’s estrangement. The self becomes a costume you’ve grown tired of wearing.
In a culture that sells authenticity as a moral achievement, Burnett’s candor reads almost subversive. It admits that "being yourself" can be exhausting, and that persona can be a shelter. For comedians especially, the public expects warmth and resilience on demand; the gap between that expectation and the messy interior is where this line lives. It’s funny in the bleakest way: a punchline that doesn’t resolve, only reveals the price of always being "Carol Burnett" when you’re just trying to be a person.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burnett, Carol. (2026, January 16). I liked myself better when I wasn't me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-liked-myself-better-when-i-wasnt-me-132091/
Chicago Style
Burnett, Carol. "I liked myself better when I wasn't me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-liked-myself-better-when-i-wasnt-me-132091/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I liked myself better when I wasn't me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-liked-myself-better-when-i-wasnt-me-132091/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







