"I live my life on self-belief and I live it partly on going with the flow"
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Then she adds the twist: “partly on going with the flow.” That “partly” does heavy lifting. It softens the hard edge of self-determination, acknowledging that in an industry built on timing, gatekeepers, and chaos, control is never total. The subtext is pragmatic: you can will yourself into the room, but you can’t will the room to behave. Flexibility becomes its own kind of power.
The phrase also plays well culturally because it resolves a contradiction people feel but rarely admit: we’re told to “manifest” outcomes while living inside systems that don’t reward effort evenly. Brown’s balance offers permission to be both assertive and adaptable without calling it hypocrisy. It’s a pop-star ethos that reads less like a poster on a wall and more like a coping strategy learned in public: hold your center, but don’t snap when the current shifts.
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"I live my life on self-belief and I live it partly on going with the flow." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-live-my-life-on-self-belief-and-i-live-it-82406/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









