"I lived in small town out in the desert and my friend used to steal his mom's car in the middle of the night. He'd drive over to my house, I'd sneak out and we'd go out to the desert and just burn things down"
About this Quote
The desert matters. It’s not just scenery; it’s permission. Open space becomes moral blank space, a place where consequences feel far away and the adult world is asleep. The middle-of-the-night car theft isn’t presented as trauma or dysfunction, but as a rite of passage: a suburban version of frontier romance, except the frontier is a cul-de-sac and the “outlaws” are teenagers with gasoline and impulse control problems.
Subtextually, it’s about agency. When you’re young in a small town, you don’t have many levers to pull, so you pull the biggest, dumbest one: you make a spectacle. “Burn things down” reads as literal vandalism, but it also works as an early draft of an artistic ethos - destruction as performance, noise as identity, risk as proof you’re alive. Coming from a musician whose genre thrives on arrested development and self-aware recklessness, the line functions like an origin story: not “we were troubled,” but “we were awake.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hoppus, Mark. (2026, January 16). I lived in small town out in the desert and my friend used to steal his mom's car in the middle of the night. He'd drive over to my house, I'd sneak out and we'd go out to the desert and just burn things down. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lived-in-small-town-out-in-the-desert-and-my-130753/
Chicago Style
Hoppus, Mark. "I lived in small town out in the desert and my friend used to steal his mom's car in the middle of the night. He'd drive over to my house, I'd sneak out and we'd go out to the desert and just burn things down." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lived-in-small-town-out-in-the-desert-and-my-130753/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I lived in small town out in the desert and my friend used to steal his mom's car in the middle of the night. He'd drive over to my house, I'd sneak out and we'd go out to the desert and just burn things down." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lived-in-small-town-out-in-the-desert-and-my-130753/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





