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Parenting & Family Quote by Alex Haley

"I look at my books the way parents look at their children. The fact that one becomes more successful than the others doesn't make me love the less successful one any less"

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Haley refuses the marketplace as a moral scoreboard. By reaching for the parent-child metaphor, he dodges the lazy cultural habit of treating a writer as only their biggest title, as if success were proof of worth and obscurity a verdict. Parents may brag, he implies, but they don’t annul affection. The comparison is disarming because it’s sentimental on the surface and quietly combative underneath: a way to insist that a book’s value isn’t exhausted by sales figures, reviews, or the public’s short attention span.

The subtext carries extra charge given Haley’s career. Roots became a phenomenon, a national conversation-starter about slavery, genealogy, and identity; it also became a brand, a burden, and a target. When one work becomes a cultural event, everything else risks being filed as a footnote, or worse, judged as a “failure” for not repeating lightning. Haley’s line pushes back against that sequel-demand. It also sounds like self-protection: a reminder to himself that creative labor is still labor even when it doesn’t get crowned.

There’s an ethical move here, too. By framing books as children, he humanizes the process, not the product. Each one is a lived stretch of time, risk, revision, and obsession. Success is partly contingency: timing, reception, distribution, the public’s hunger for a particular story in a particular moment. Haley asks for a longer view - one where devotion isn’t negotiable just because the crowd picked a favorite.

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Haley, Alex. (2026, January 15). I look at my books the way parents look at their children. The fact that one becomes more successful than the others doesn't make me love the less successful one any less. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-look-at-my-books-the-way-parents-look-at-their-157664/

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Haley, Alex. "I look at my books the way parents look at their children. The fact that one becomes more successful than the others doesn't make me love the less successful one any less." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-look-at-my-books-the-way-parents-look-at-their-157664/.

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"I look at my books the way parents look at their children. The fact that one becomes more successful than the others doesn't make me love the less successful one any less." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-look-at-my-books-the-way-parents-look-at-their-157664/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alex Haley (August 11, 1921 - February 10, 1992) was a Novelist from USA.

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