"I lost boundaries as a child that I didn't even realize it, and it wasn't talked about back then. You know, it was something you just buried and dealt with, and moved forward. What could you do about it?"
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The subtext is generational, and it's indicting without being accusatory. "It wasn't talked about back then" isn't nostalgia; it's a portrait of an era when reputations mattered more than repair, when "private" functioned as a euphemism for unaccountable. Osmond, a public-facing performer raised in a brand-conscious entertainment world, points to the way image management can become a family value, then a psychological habit. "You just buried and dealt with, and moved forward" is the vocabulary of survival repackaged as maturity.
Then she lands on the line that makes the whole quote feel like a confession and a critique: "What could you do about it?" It's not only resignation; it's a map of power. Kids rarely have recourse, and adults often pretend they don't either. The question exposes how silence isn't passive. It's taught, enforced, and inherited. In today's culture of disclosure, Osmond's restraint reads as its own kind of testimony: the cost wasn't just what happened, but the years spent believing it couldn't be named.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Osmond, Marie. (2026, February 18). I lost boundaries as a child that I didn't even realize it, and it wasn't talked about back then. You know, it was something you just buried and dealt with, and moved forward. What could you do about it? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lost-boundaries-as-a-child-that-i-didnt-even-93560/
Chicago Style
Osmond, Marie. "I lost boundaries as a child that I didn't even realize it, and it wasn't talked about back then. You know, it was something you just buried and dealt with, and moved forward. What could you do about it?" FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lost-boundaries-as-a-child-that-i-didnt-even-93560/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I lost boundaries as a child that I didn't even realize it, and it wasn't talked about back then. You know, it was something you just buried and dealt with, and moved forward. What could you do about it?" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lost-boundaries-as-a-child-that-i-didnt-even-93560/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.




