"I love acting. But I love being a mother. To be a full mother and a full person, you have to do what you love, and that's acting. But I like the best of both worlds"
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Then she tightens the argument into something almost managerial: “To be a full mother and a full person, you have to do what you love.” That phrase “full person” carries the whole subtext. Motherhood is assumed to be totalizing, but she insists it can’t be the only identity allowed to expand. Acting isn’t framed as vanity or escape; it’s positioned as the work that keeps her intact. The logic is less “I want it all” than “I need this to be myself.”
There’s also a performative neatness to “best of both worlds,” a classic talk-show closer that smooths over structural realities: childcare, scheduling, guilt, industry ageism, the way acting jobs don’t come with predictable hours. The phrasing sells harmony because that’s the culturally acceptable story. Still, it’s quietly radical in its insistence that motherhood doesn’t cancel desire, and that loving your kid doesn’t require shrinking your life. Gold isn’t asking permission; she’s rehearsing a boundary in public language.
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Gold, Tracey. (n.d.). I love acting. But I love being a mother. To be a full mother and a full person, you have to do what you love, and that's acting. But I like the best of both worlds. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-acting-but-i-love-being-a-mother-to-be-a-77841/
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Gold, Tracey. "I love acting. But I love being a mother. To be a full mother and a full person, you have to do what you love, and that's acting. But I like the best of both worlds." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-acting-but-i-love-being-a-mother-to-be-a-77841/.
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"I love acting. But I love being a mother. To be a full mother and a full person, you have to do what you love, and that's acting. But I like the best of both worlds." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-acting-but-i-love-being-a-mother-to-be-a-77841/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.


