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Love Quote by Marie de France

"I love no woman, for love is a serious business, not a jest"

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A medieval poet claiming she "loves no woman" lands less like a confession than a controlled detonation. Marie de France pairs refusal with reverence: love is not denied because it is trivial, but because it is "serious business". The line pivots on that split between jest and gravity. Courtly culture thrived on flirtation as performance - coded glances, refined compliments, the social sport of desire. Marie swats at that entire economy. If love is treated as entertainment, it becomes a kind of fraud: pleasure masquerading as devotion, status masquerading as intimacy.

The subtext is even sharper given her position. A woman writing in a world where women's speech is often permitted only in sanctioned registers (piety, obedience, romance) uses the language of ethics to claim authority over feeling. "I love no woman" can read as boundary-setting rather than coldness: she will not spend emotional truth on a game rigged by others. It also teases the instability of "love" as a word - elastic enough to cover lust, favor, patronage, and poetic pose. By insisting it is "serious business", she tries to pin the term down, reclaim it from the ornamental.

There is a sly paradox at work: the speaker sounds austere, yet the statement itself is intensely rhetorical. Renouncing love becomes a way to define it on her terms, separating real attachment from courtly banter. The line is a warning and a dare: if you want love, bring receipts, not applause.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
France, Marie de. (2026, January 15). I love no woman, for love is a serious business, not a jest. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-no-woman-for-love-is-a-serious-business-158260/

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France, Marie de. "I love no woman, for love is a serious business, not a jest." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-no-woman-for-love-is-a-serious-business-158260/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I love no woman, for love is a serious business, not a jest." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-no-woman-for-love-is-a-serious-business-158260/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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