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Love Quote by Wally Lamb

"I love the most the students with troubled lives"

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There’s a quiet provocation in Lamb’s phrasing: he doesn’t say he pities these students, or even that he’s drawn to them. He says he loves them “the most,” a superlative that refuses the usual professional distance and invites suspicion. Love, in a classroom, is a loaded word; it can sound like favoritism, saviorism, or boundary-crossing. Lamb uses it anyway, which is the point. He’s naming the emotional truth that many teachers and mentors recognize but rarely admit out loud: the kids who arrive carrying chaos, grief, addiction, violence, neglect - they don’t just need help. They change the moral stakes of the room.

The subtext is less about preference than about attention. “Troubled lives” is deliberately broad, a humane euphemism that avoids turning students into case studies. It hints at the hidden biographies that sit behind misbehavior, lateness, silence, or rage. Loving them “the most” reads as a corrective to institutions that tend to love compliant students most: the ones who perform stability and reward systems. Lamb flips that hierarchy, suggesting that difficulty is not a disqualifier for affection but a claim upon it.

Context matters: Lamb’s fiction is steeped in trauma, care, and the messy afterlives of family damage. The line feels like it comes from a writer who believes stories can be triage. It’s not a sentimental halo; it’s a declaration of allegiance to the students most likely to be written off, and a reminder that care is often a choice made against convenience.

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Lamb, Wally. (2026, January 16). I love the most the students with troubled lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-the-most-the-students-with-troubled-lives-111179/

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Lamb, Wally. "I love the most the students with troubled lives." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-the-most-the-students-with-troubled-lives-111179/.

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"I love the most the students with troubled lives." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-the-most-the-students-with-troubled-lives-111179/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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