"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass"
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The intent is protective, even maternal, but not soft. "Love to see" signals delight in audacity, a kind of witness-bearing. She’s not describing abstract self-actualization; she’s rooting for a physical, visible act of taking space. "Grab the world" is confrontational, not aspirational. It’s a directive to treat opportunity like something that will slip away if you don’t seize it.
Subtext: Angelou is talking about power and permission. For Black women especially, "young girl" can be a category the culture uses to infantilize, to deny authority, to punish confidence as arrogance. When she says life is a bitch, she’s not being edgy; she’s naming the cruelty of systems that romantic language tends to obscure. The profanity functions like a door slam against respectability politics: you don’t have to sound polished to be right.
Context matters because Angelou’s career was built on transforming survival into speech. This is resilience without the Hallmark gloss: not "stay positive", but "stay standing, and hit back."
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Angelou, Maya. (2026, January 15). I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-to-see-a-young-girl-go-out-and-grab-the-24916/
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Angelou, Maya. "I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-to-see-a-young-girl-go-out-and-grab-the-24916/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-to-see-a-young-girl-go-out-and-grab-the-24916/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





