"I maintain that, if everyone knew what others said about him, there would not be four friends in the world"
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The intent is moral and diagnostic. In the Jansenist-inflected atmosphere Pascal breathed, human nature is not basically decent with a few flaws; it is self-protective, vain, and deeply anxious about status. Gossip becomes a symptom of that condition. We talk about people to manage our own reputation, to test alliances, to feel briefly above someone else. If the target heard it, the social fabric would tear, not because the remarks are always monstrous, but because they expose the gap between our public civility and our private inventory of others.
Subtext: friendship often depends on mutually agreed blind spots. Not lies exactly, but strategic omissions - the small mercies that keep daily life from turning into an endless courtroom. Pascal’s bleakness is also strangely modern: he anticipates the pathology of total transparency. Imagine a world of perfect receipts, group chats leaked, every aside searchable. His punchline reads like a warning against confusing disclosure with virtue. Some relationships survive on truth; most survive on tact, distance, and the grace of not knowing.
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| Topic | Fake Friends |
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Pascal, Blaise. (2026, January 16). I maintain that, if everyone knew what others said about him, there would not be four friends in the world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-maintain-that-if-everyone-knew-what-others-said-135830/
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Pascal, Blaise. "I maintain that, if everyone knew what others said about him, there would not be four friends in the world." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-maintain-that-if-everyone-knew-what-others-said-135830/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I maintain that, if everyone knew what others said about him, there would not be four friends in the world." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-maintain-that-if-everyone-knew-what-others-said-135830/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.










