"I married an archaeologist because the older I grow, the more he appreciates me"
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The subtext is sharper than the punchline. Christie isn’t just joking about wrinkles; she’s lampooning the romantic ideal that a “good” marriage is one where a woman is continually reappraised by a man’s gaze. The humor lands because it admits the premise (women get judged) while refusing its conclusion (therefore women must fear aging). It’s a survival strategy: take the insult the culture is always about to deliver, and deliver it first, with better timing.
Context matters. Christie, a writer who made a career out of observing human motive and social performance, lived through eras when women’s public authority was fragile and their private lives were scrutinized. Her own biography includes a famously messy first marriage and a second, steadier partnership with archaeologist Max Mallowan. Knowing that, the line reads as both affectionate and knowing: a private joke with teeth, and a public wink at the way “appreciation” is too often treated as something women must earn by staying young.
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Christie, Agatha. (2026, January 15). I married an archaeologist because the older I grow, the more he appreciates me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-married-an-archaeologist-because-the-older-i-6432/
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Christie, Agatha. "I married an archaeologist because the older I grow, the more he appreciates me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-married-an-archaeologist-because-the-older-i-6432/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I married an archaeologist because the older I grow, the more he appreciates me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-married-an-archaeologist-because-the-older-i-6432/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






