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"I meet a lot of young people in the Midwest, and I saw what a difference a show like In the Life can make to their lives in some of these small towns where, you know, there are probably two gay people in the whole damn town"

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There is a whole sociology paper hiding inside that throwaway "whole damn town". Lesley Gore, a pop star who spent decades being packaged for mass appeal, lets the polish drop long enough to name the loneliness that mass culture usually airbrushes out. The line is funny in a barbed way, but it is not a joke: the exaggeration ("probably two") is a pressure gauge for isolation, the kind that turns adolescence into a private exile when you live somewhere small, religious, or simply watchful.

The specific intent is advocacy without sermonizing. Gore isn’t claiming that TV saves lives in the melodramatic sense; she’s saying representation creates a livable mirror. "In the Life", one of the first LGBTQ television magazines in the U.S., mattered precisely because it reached places where local institutions - school, church, family - could not or would not supply language for being gay. In that context, a show becomes a clandestine community: proof you’re not a glitch, not alone, not doomed to silence.

The subtext carries Gore’s own biography. After years of singing teen heartache as a straight-friendly commodity, she came out publicly later in life and became active in LGBTQ causes. Her emphasis on the Midwest is also tactical: it pushes back on the coastal myth that queerness is an urban lifestyle accessory. She’s pointing to the kids for whom "community" isn’t a neighborhood, it’s a broadcast signal slipping under the door.

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Gore, Lesley. (2026, January 17). I meet a lot of young people in the Midwest, and I saw what a difference a show like In the Life can make to their lives in some of these small towns where, you know, there are probably two gay people in the whole damn town. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-meet-a-lot-of-young-people-in-the-midwest-and-i-74249/

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Gore, Lesley. "I meet a lot of young people in the Midwest, and I saw what a difference a show like In the Life can make to their lives in some of these small towns where, you know, there are probably two gay people in the whole damn town." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-meet-a-lot-of-young-people-in-the-midwest-and-i-74249/.

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"I meet a lot of young people in the Midwest, and I saw what a difference a show like In the Life can make to their lives in some of these small towns where, you know, there are probably two gay people in the whole damn town." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-meet-a-lot-of-young-people-in-the-midwest-and-i-74249/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Lesley Gore (May 2, 1946 - February 16, 2015) was a Musician from USA.

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