"I moved on with my life but I still have a big commitment to Terri. I made her a promise"
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The emotional lever is the last sentence. “I made her a promise” is intimate, almost domestic, but it’s also legal and civic in its implications. A promise suggests prior consent, private knowledge, and a duty that survives public disgust. It reframes his actions not as choice but as obligation. In a controversy where strangers fought to speak for Terri - family, politicians, pastors, protesters - Schiavo claims the one authority that sounds cleaner than ideology: the vow.
There’s also a strategic narrowing. He doesn’t argue medicine, religion, or policy. He argues character. In a media environment that turned a bedside tragedy into a national referendum, “promise” functions as a rhetorical shield: you can dispute my decision, but you can’t easily debate my fidelity without sounding cruel. That’s why it works - and why it infuriated opponents who needed him to be motivated by convenience, not commitment.
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"I moved on with my life but I still have a big commitment to Terri. I made her a promise." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-moved-on-with-my-life-but-i-still-have-a-big-100592/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




