"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat"
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The second half lands like a clean slap. “Whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat” isn’t just a punchline; it’s a diagnosis of the social contract. The bar for being branded a feminist, she implies, is embarrassingly low: basic self-respect. That’s the subtextual burn - if refusing humiliation is “feminism,” then the culture has already admitted what it expects from women.
Context matters. West came of age in Britain’s suffrage era and spent her career in a public sphere that treated sharp female intellect as a provocation. The line anticipates a modern dynamic: women’s ordinary boundary-setting getting recast as radical, strident, or ideological. West’s wit works because it flips the burden of proof. She doesn’t defend feminism; she indicts the conditions that make “doormat” the default setting.
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| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Later attribution: Living Feminism (Chilla Bulbeck, 1997) modern compilation
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West, Rebecca. (2026, February 7). I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-myself-have-never-been-able-to-find-out-83259/
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West, Rebecca. "I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-myself-have-never-been-able-to-find-out-83259/.
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"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-myself-have-never-been-able-to-find-out-83259/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



