"I need six weeks of rehearsal and women need nine months and it took me 15 years to figure that out"
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The phrasing matters. “Need” is doing double duty: it’s practical (pregnancy takes time) and moral (women are asked to shoulder time, risk, and bodily consequence). By placing rehearsal beside gestation, Hurt smuggles in a critique of how men treat women’s labor as background noise while they obsess over their own timelines, their own stakes, their own heroics. The punchline - “it took me 15 years to figure that out” - doesn’t flatter him; it indicts him. It points to a long apprenticeship in empathy, the kind that often arrives late because the cost isn’t paid by the person learning the lesson.
Culturally, it reads as a moment of male awakening filtered through charm: self-deprecation as a socially acceptable way to acknowledge feminism-adjacent truths without sounding preachy. The humor keeps it quotable; the subtext keeps it uncomfortable. It’s a reminder that recognition, for many men, is treated as growth when it’s really overdue accountability.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hurt, William. (2026, January 16). I need six weeks of rehearsal and women need nine months and it took me 15 years to figure that out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-six-weeks-of-rehearsal-and-women-need-nine-86953/
Chicago Style
Hurt, William. "I need six weeks of rehearsal and women need nine months and it took me 15 years to figure that out." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-six-weeks-of-rehearsal-and-women-need-nine-86953/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I need six weeks of rehearsal and women need nine months and it took me 15 years to figure that out." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-six-weeks-of-rehearsal-and-women-need-nine-86953/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

