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"I need that aggressive attitude to play my music and more men have that attitude than women"

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Rock has always sold aggression as authenticity, and Lita Ford is blunt about the toll that marketing choice takes on women. On its face, she frames “aggressive attitude” as a functional tool: a switch you flip to perform heavy music convincingly. But the second clause—“more men have that attitude than women”—lands less like a biological claim than a report from the trenches: the genre’s default emotional vocabulary has been coded male for so long that women are treated as guests unless they speak it fluently.

Ford came up in an era when women in hard rock and metal were expected to be either decorative, disarming, or exceptional to the point of novelty. “Aggressive” wasn’t just a sound; it was a posture tied to gatekeeping—who gets to be loud, who gets to be angry without being dismissed as “hysterical,” who can command a stage without being sexualized or second-guessed. Her phrasing carries a weary pragmatism: if the room rewards a certain kind of force, you learn to wield it, even if it means borrowing from a masculinity the culture calls natural.

The subtext is a double bind. If she isn’t aggressive enough, she risks being read as lightweight; if she is, she’s punished for violating femininity. By stating the imbalance plainly, Ford isn’t praising men so much as naming the structural advantage: men are permitted—and trained—to take up space. The line’s bite comes from its unromantic clarity about the cost of entry.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ford, Lita. (2026, January 15). I need that aggressive attitude to play my music and more men have that attitude than women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-that-aggressive-attitude-to-play-my-music-168006/

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Ford, Lita. "I need that aggressive attitude to play my music and more men have that attitude than women." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-that-aggressive-attitude-to-play-my-music-168006/.

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"I need that aggressive attitude to play my music and more men have that attitude than women." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-need-that-aggressive-attitude-to-play-my-music-168006/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Lita Ford (born September 19, 1958) is a Musician from USA.

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