"I needed to be accepted, not humored. I intended to act"
About this Quote
The line lands because Tierney refuses the sentimental script. There’s no plea for validation, no coy self-deprecation. The syntax is spare, almost juridical: I needed. I intended. Two clean sentences that read like a contract with herself. "I intended to act" works as a double-barreled declaration: act as in perform, yes, but also act as in take action. It’s a refusal of passivity, a statement that she won’t wait to be granted seriousness by men in suits, gossip columns, or a culture that often framed actresses as ornaments first and workers second.
Subtextually, Tierney is naming the power dynamic that still haunts celebrity: being liked isn’t the same as being respected. "Humored" is the velvet glove of dismissal. By insisting on acceptance, she’s also rejecting the soft cage of gratitude - that expectation that a woman should be thankful just to be present. The quote’s sting comes from how contemporary it feels: the demand isn’t for applause, but for credibility, and the willingness to earn it by doing the work.
Quote Details
| Topic | Respect |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tierney, Gene. (2026, January 15). I needed to be accepted, not humored. I intended to act. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-needed-to-be-accepted-not-humored-i-intended-to-146457/
Chicago Style
Tierney, Gene. "I needed to be accepted, not humored. I intended to act." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-needed-to-be-accepted-not-humored-i-intended-to-146457/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I needed to be accepted, not humored. I intended to act." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-needed-to-be-accepted-not-humored-i-intended-to-146457/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.







