"I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18"
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The second line sharpens the edge: “That’s why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18.” Not “when I could,” but the moment adulthood becomes legal fact. It frames leaving as an act of necessity, not rebellion. The subtext is control. If belonging is a club, she’s refusing to wait for admission and choosing exile as agency. There’s also a quiet critique of the American hometown myth: the narrative that roots are inherently nourishing. Lange suggests roots can also be entanglements.
Context matters here. Coming of age in the 1960s Midwest, then building a career in volatile, image-driven industries, Lange’s remark reads like a prequel to her public persona: independent, unsentimental, slightly feral in her commitment to freedom. It works because it’s not nostalgic. It’s clean, declarative, and a little cold, the way true departures often are.
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| Topic | New Beginnings |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lange, Jessica. (2026, January 17). I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-felt-like-i-belonged-in-minnesota-when-i-69414/
Chicago Style
Lange, Jessica. "I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-felt-like-i-belonged-in-minnesota-when-i-69414/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-felt-like-i-belonged-in-minnesota-when-i-69414/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




