"I never felt like I belonged in Minnesota when I was growing up there. That's why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18"
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Alienation is doing a lot of work in these two sentences, and Lange delivers it with the plainspoken finality of someone who doesn’t need to litigate the past. “I never felt like I belonged” isn’t just teenage restlessness; it’s a self-mythology move, positioning her identity as something that couldn’t be contained by the place that raised her. Minnesota becomes less a state than a stand-in for any tight social ecology where the costs of difference are paid in silence, conformity, or the slow erosion of ambition.
The second line sharpens the edge: “That’s why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18.” Not “when I could,” but the moment adulthood becomes legal fact. It frames leaving as an act of necessity, not rebellion. The subtext is control. If belonging is a club, she’s refusing to wait for admission and choosing exile as agency. There’s also a quiet critique of the American hometown myth: the narrative that roots are inherently nourishing. Lange suggests roots can also be entanglements.
Context matters here. Coming of age in the 1960s Midwest, then building a career in volatile, image-driven industries, Lange’s remark reads like a prequel to her public persona: independent, unsentimental, slightly feral in her commitment to freedom. It works because it’s not nostalgic. It’s clean, declarative, and a little cold, the way true departures often are.
The second line sharpens the edge: “That’s why I was out the door as soon as I turned 18.” Not “when I could,” but the moment adulthood becomes legal fact. It frames leaving as an act of necessity, not rebellion. The subtext is control. If belonging is a club, she’s refusing to wait for admission and choosing exile as agency. There’s also a quiet critique of the American hometown myth: the narrative that roots are inherently nourishing. Lange suggests roots can also be entanglements.
Context matters here. Coming of age in the 1960s Midwest, then building a career in volatile, image-driven industries, Lange’s remark reads like a prequel to her public persona: independent, unsentimental, slightly feral in her commitment to freedom. It works because it’s not nostalgic. It’s clean, declarative, and a little cold, the way true departures often are.
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