"I never found it frustrating not speaking"
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The intent feels pragmatic rather than mystical. “Never found it frustrating” is carefully calibrated; it doesn’t romanticize silence as purity, it shrugs at it as workable. That understated phrasing implies discipline. Actors are trained to hit marks, wait for cues, serve the edit. Not speaking can be boredom for some, ego-death for others. Selby frames it as unthreatening, which reads like someone comfortable not fighting for oxygen in the room.
The subtext: real authority doesn’t need to announce itself. In an industry where visibility is currency, claiming ease with silence is a minor act of resistance. It hints at confidence in collaborative storytelling and a certain professionalism: you don’t dominate a scene; you shape it.
Contextually, it echoes an older acting ethos - one formed before social media demanded perpetual self-narration. Today, when every public figure is expected to brand themselves in real time, Selby’s line feels almost radical: you can be fully present, even compelling, without talking.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Selby, David. (2026, January 17). I never found it frustrating not speaking. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-found-it-frustrating-not-speaking-65023/
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Selby, David. "I never found it frustrating not speaking." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-found-it-frustrating-not-speaking-65023/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never found it frustrating not speaking." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-found-it-frustrating-not-speaking-65023/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






