"I never gave away anything without wishing I had kept it; nor kept it without wishing I had given it away"
About this Quote
Coming from an actress whose career was both mythologized and mishandled, the subtext hits harder. Brooks became a symbol of modern cool in silent cinema, then watched Hollywood punish her for refusing its terms. She understood value as something set by scarcity, by timing, by who gets to tell the story afterward. That’s what makes the quote feel less like a cute paradox and more like a diagnosis of how desire gets manufactured: not by what we have, but by what our choices foreclose.
It also reads as a sideways critique of the social script imposed on women in her era: be giving, but not too giving; be self-possessed, but not too self-possessed. Either way, you’ll be told you did it wrong, and eventually you start telling yourself. Brooks distills that double bind into one crisp confession, making indecision sound like wisdom and wisdom sound like a bruise.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brooks, Louise. (2026, January 16). I never gave away anything without wishing I had kept it; nor kept it without wishing I had given it away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-gave-away-anything-without-wishing-i-had-87917/
Chicago Style
Brooks, Louise. "I never gave away anything without wishing I had kept it; nor kept it without wishing I had given it away." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-gave-away-anything-without-wishing-i-had-87917/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never gave away anything without wishing I had kept it; nor kept it without wishing I had given it away." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-gave-away-anything-without-wishing-i-had-87917/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










