"I never hurt nobody but myself and that's nobody's business but my own"
About this Quote
Holiday came up in an era that treated Black women’s bodies and choices as communal property: policed by the industry, sensationalized by the press, surveilled by the state. So “nobody’s business” isn’t a shrug, it’s a boundary line. The double negative (“never hurt nobody”) reads like lived speech, not a polished aphorism, which is why it feels intimate and unguarded even as it’s guarding something. It carries the sound of someone insisting on privacy while knowing privacy has rarely been granted to her.
There’s also a quiet indictment embedded in the self-blame. When someone says they only hurt themselves, they’re often speaking from a world that has already hurt them first. Holiday’s life and voice were shaped by exploitation, racism, addiction, and relentless scrutiny; this sentence turns that scrutiny back on the listener. If you’re here to watch me fall, at least don’t pretend it’s concern.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Holiday, Billie. (2026, January 17). I never hurt nobody but myself and that's nobody's business but my own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-hurt-nobody-but-myself-and-thats-nobodys-47593/
Chicago Style
Holiday, Billie. "I never hurt nobody but myself and that's nobody's business but my own." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-hurt-nobody-but-myself-and-thats-nobodys-47593/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never hurt nobody but myself and that's nobody's business but my own." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-hurt-nobody-but-myself-and-thats-nobodys-47593/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










