"I never learned from a man who agreed with me"
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The specific intent isn’t polite pluralism. It’s a provocation aimed at the self-satisfied debater who collects consensus as proof of correctness. Heinlein reframes disagreement as utility, not insult. The subtext is transactional: other people are valuable when they supply the one thing you can’t manufacture alone, the angle that exposes your blind spots. A man who agrees with you may be kind, loyal, even wise - but he’s not adding information. He’s confirming.
There’s also a sharp, slightly combative masculinity embedded in the phrasing: “a man” as the arena, the sparring partner, the worthy opponent. That’s period, personality, and posture rolled together. Heinlein wrote through the Cold War, when ideological certainty was a national sport and dissent could be treated as disloyalty. The quote pitches an alternative ethic: treat opposition as education. Not because everyone is equally right, but because certainty without challenge becomes dogma - and dogma makes for bad politics, bad science, and bad fiction.
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