"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself"
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The subtext cuts both ways. On one hand, Lawrence is attacking a culture of inwardness - the self as perpetual project, injury as autobiography. “Sorry for itself” implies a second layer of suffering: not just hurt, but the story we tell about being hurt. Lawrence wants to strip that story away, to recover a more elemental posture toward life: endure, respond, move. On the other hand, the line carries a faint cruelty, even a dare. If a bird can die without self-pity, what excuse do you have? That’s the provocation, and it’s meant to sting.
Context matters: Lawrence wrote against what he saw as the deadening effects of industrial society and overcivilized morality. He distrusted the mind’s tendency to detach from the body, to substitute analysis and grievance for lived sensation. The frozen bird becomes his icon of unsentimental vitality - not because it survives, but because it doesn’t turn suffering into self-absorption.
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| Topic | Nature |
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| Source | Later attribution: D. H. Lawrence (David Herbert Lawrence) modern compilation
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lawrence, David Herbert. (2026, February 7). I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-saw-a-wild-thing-sorry-for-itself-a-small-43397/
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Lawrence, David Herbert. "I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-saw-a-wild-thing-sorry-for-itself-a-small-43397/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-saw-a-wild-thing-sorry-for-itself-a-small-43397/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









