"I never thought of myself as either a woman or a man. I thought of myself as a person who was born to a writer, who was doomed to be a writer"
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The pivot is the sly, almost Biblical phrasing of origin and fate: "born to a writer" and "doomed to be a writer". Young frames authorship as inheritance and curse at once. "Born to" evokes lineage, a household where language was oxygen and expectation. "Doomed" undercuts any romantic "calling" narrative; it suggests compulsion, a life narrowed by necessity. The subtext is that writing isn’t an accessory to identity but the identity that annexes everything else.
In the context of a 20th-century literary culture that persistently filed women writers under "women's writing" (as if their work were a sidebar to the main shelf), Young’s stance reads like strategy as much as self-description. She isn’t denying gendered experience; she’s rejecting its editorial packaging. The rhetoric performs what it argues: it strips labels down to a single, stubborn noun - writer - and dares you to treat that as the whole story, even if it’s the least comfortable one.
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Young, Marguerite. (2026, January 17). I never thought of myself as either a woman or a man. I thought of myself as a person who was born to a writer, who was doomed to be a writer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-thought-of-myself-as-either-a-woman-or-a-69500/
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Young, Marguerite. "I never thought of myself as either a woman or a man. I thought of myself as a person who was born to a writer, who was doomed to be a writer." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-thought-of-myself-as-either-a-woman-or-a-69500/.
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"I never thought of myself as either a woman or a man. I thought of myself as a person who was born to a writer, who was doomed to be a writer." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-thought-of-myself-as-either-a-woman-or-a-69500/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



