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"I never yet heard man or woman much abused that I was not inclined to think the better of them, and to transfer the suspicion or dislike to the one who found pleasure in pointing out the defects of another"

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Porter’s line is a neat social boomerang: the act of “much abused” talk snaps back onto the speaker. She isn’t offering a saintly defense of every maligned person; she’s diagnosing a habit of mind. When abuse becomes a pastime, it reveals more about the accuser’s appetites than the target’s character. The sentence turns on “pleasure” - not “duty,” not “concern,” but enjoyment. That single word exposes gossip and moral policing as entertainment, a way to gain status by distributing shame.

The subtext is shrewdly psychological. Public condemnation often functions as a shortcut to intimacy within a group: we bond by agreeing on who’s ridiculous, who’s corrupt, who deserves it. Porter refuses that cheap cohesion. Her instinct to “think the better” of the abused isn’t naive contrarianism; it’s a recognition that reputation is a battleground where power, envy, and class anxiety dress up as moral clarity. In a culture that relied heavily on hearsay and “character” as currency - especially for women, whose social survival could be ruined by insinuation - this is more than good manners. It’s a critique of an economy of judgment.

Porter also threads a moral needle: she doesn’t deny defects exist. She questions the spectator sport of defect-spotting, the little thrill of being the one who notices, who names, who diminishes. The rhetorical move is subtle but bracing: distrust not the imperfect person, but the person who needs imperfection as a hobby.

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Jane Porter (1776 AC - 1850) was a Novelist from Ireland.

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