"I no longer need to be someone's wife. I'm doing okay as I am"
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The first sentence, "I no longer need to be someone's wife", is doing more than rejecting marriage; it's rejecting the job description. "Someone's" is the tell. Wifehood is presented not as a partnership between equals but as a possession-marking label, a social credential that confers legitimacy. Evans doesn't say she doesn't want love. She says she doesn't need the title. That's a pointed distinction for a celebrity audience trained to read single women as either tragic or temporarily unclaimed.
The subtext is pragmatic rather than romantic: if you can pay your bills, sustain your friendships, and live without constant validation, then marriage becomes optional instead of compulsory. That matters culturally because it punctures the lingering myth that independence is a phase and coupling is the destination. Evans makes autonomy sound ordinary and therefore attainable. The line doesn't beg for approval; it asserts a new baseline, one where being "okay" is the victory and the relationship status is just metadata.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Evans, Linda. (2026, January 16). I no longer need to be someone's wife. I'm doing okay as I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-no-longer-need-to-be-someones-wife-im-doing-102139/
Chicago Style
Evans, Linda. "I no longer need to be someone's wife. I'm doing okay as I am." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-no-longer-need-to-be-someones-wife-im-doing-102139/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I no longer need to be someone's wife. I'm doing okay as I am." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-no-longer-need-to-be-someones-wife-im-doing-102139/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.





