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Daily Inspiration Quote by Kathleen Turner

"I often play women who are not essentially good or likable, and I often go through a stage where I hate them. Then I end up loving and defending them"

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Turner’s confession gets at the dirty little secret of great screen acting: you don’t “like” a character into existence, you argue them into humanity. The line starts with an almost taboo admission for an actress who built a career on sharp edges and unapologetic appetite. Playing women “not essentially good or likable” isn’t just a role choice; it’s a cultural dare. Male antiheroes get crowned complicated. Women who take up space, want things, or behave badly get audited for charm.

The emotional pivot - hate, then love - is the real craft lesson. Turner describes a process that sounds less like inspiration and more like moral negotiation. At first, she reacts like the audience is trained to react: recoil, judge, punish. Then the actor’s job kicks in: locate the internal logic that makes the “unlikable” coherent. Defending the character becomes a way of resisting the script’s or the culture’s desire to reduce her to a warning label.

Context matters here: Turner’s star persona in the 1980s and 1990s was a lightning rod for anxieties about female power and sexuality. Her characters often read as threats - to men, to domestic order, to neat moral accounting. By admitting she has to cross a bridge from disgust to empathy, she’s also exposing how deep the conditioning runs, even for the person tasked with embodying the role. The subtext is a quiet manifesto: women on screen don’t owe us virtue; they owe us truth, and truth often arrives with teeth.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Turner, Kathleen. (2026, January 17). I often play women who are not essentially good or likable, and I often go through a stage where I hate them. Then I end up loving and defending them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-often-play-women-who-are-not-essentially-good-80814/

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Turner, Kathleen. "I often play women who are not essentially good or likable, and I often go through a stage where I hate them. Then I end up loving and defending them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-often-play-women-who-are-not-essentially-good-80814/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I often play women who are not essentially good or likable, and I often go through a stage where I hate them. Then I end up loving and defending them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-often-play-women-who-are-not-essentially-good-80814/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kathleen Turner

Kathleen Turner (born July 19, 1954) is a Actress from USA.

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