"I often regret that I have spoken; never that I have been silent"
About this Quote
The line works because it flips a cultural assumption. We’re trained to treat silence as awkward, suspicious, even weak. Syrus makes it look like the only rational strategy in a world where people weaponize whatever you give them. “I often regret” is doing quiet heavy lifting: this isn’t moralizing from a mountaintop; it’s the exhausted wisdom of someone who’s watched a casual remark turn into a consequence. The second half, “never that I have been silent,” is deliberately absolute. It’s not literally true; it’s rhetorically useful. The extremity sells the lesson, like a parent saying “Don’t touch the stove” without footnotes.
Context matters. Syrus was a writer of sententiae in late Republican Rome, a culture where reputation, patronage, and political survival depended on performance - including verbal performance. A poet, especially one navigating status and power, would feel how quickly language can backfire: one joke too sharp, one opinion too frank, one boast too public. The subtext is tactical: speak only when the payoff outweighs the permanent record.
Read now, it lands as an antidote to the always-on compulsion to comment. Not because silence is purity, but because restraint is agency. In an economy of hot takes, Syrus offers the oldest luxury: control over what you don’t hand to the crowd.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: The Quote Manual (Robert G. Moscatelli, 2005) modern compilationISBN: 9781463498030 · ID: 8KXTzyEc5hcC
Evidence:
... I often regret that I have spoken ; never that I have been silent . " Publilius Syrus Roman Empire " One must wait until the evening to know how truly splendid the day has been . " Sophocles Greece Indecision " Who reflects too much ... |
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Syrus, Publilius. "I often regret that I have spoken; never that I have been silent." FixQuotes. February 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-often-regret-that-i-have-spoken-never-that-i-33967/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I often regret that I have spoken; never that I have been silent." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-often-regret-that-i-have-spoken-never-that-i-33967/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








