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Creativity Quote by Sinead O'Connor

"I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight"

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There is something brutally clarifying about the way O'Connor frames "feeling better" not as an internal victory but as a drop in external cruelty. The sentence refuses the tidy comeback story people love to project onto women in public: that confidence is a solo project, that healing is a private triumph. Instead, she points at the actual lever being pulled - other people's behavior - and names the quiet bargain behind celebrity "body talk": your mental state is treated as contingent on whether the crowd approves of your silhouette.

The specificity of "abusive" matters. She isn't describing critique, or concern, or even rudeness. She's describing harm. That word yanks the conversation out of lifestyle chatter and into power: who gets to comment, who gets to punish, who gets to decide what a woman's body "means" in public. "About my weight" is almost an afterthought grammatically, which is the point; the weight isn't the story, the harassment is.

Coming from O'Connor, whose career was defined by refusing to perform palatability - politically, spiritually, aesthetically - the line reads like exhaustion more than confession. It's a weary data point from someone who has watched the world pathologize her: sometimes as "too thin", sometimes as "unwell", sometimes as "letting herself go", always as available for inspection. The subtext is bleak: relief arrives not when the self changes, but when the mob gets bored. That's not empowerment; it's a ceasefire.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Connor, Sinead. (2026, January 16). I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/

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O'Connor, Sinead. "I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Sinead O'Connor (December 8, 1966 - July 26, 2023) was a Musician from Ireland.

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