"I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight"
About this Quote
The specificity of "abusive" matters. She isn't describing critique, or concern, or even rudeness. She's describing harm. That word yanks the conversation out of lifestyle chatter and into power: who gets to comment, who gets to punish, who gets to decide what a woman's body "means" in public. "About my weight" is almost an afterthought grammatically, which is the point; the weight isn't the story, the harassment is.
Coming from O'Connor, whose career was defined by refusing to perform palatability - politically, spiritually, aesthetically - the line reads like exhaustion more than confession. It's a weary data point from someone who has watched the world pathologize her: sometimes as "too thin", sometimes as "unwell", sometimes as "letting herself go", always as available for inspection. The subtext is bleak: relief arrives not when the self changes, but when the mob gets bored. That's not empowerment; it's a ceasefire.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mental Health |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Connor, Sinead. (2026, January 16). I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/
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O'Connor, Sinead. "I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I only feel better because people aren't being so abusive to me about my weight." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-feel-better-because-people-arent-being-so-116929/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




