"I only know it takes weeks to recover, as if one had been in a car accident"
About this Quote
The car accident metaphor does several jobs at once. It suggests sudden impact, lack of consent, and the lingering bureaucratic misery of aftermath: your life technically continues, but everything is recalibrated around pain, fatigue, and vigilance. It also implies that what happened was ordinary in the way modern catastrophe is ordinary: no operatic tragedy, just a violent interruption you’re expected to manage. Highsmith’s fiction thrives on that premise, the everyday world punctured by a shock that exposes how thin our idea of “fine” really is.
Context matters because Highsmith wrote from and into a mid-century climate where certain kinds of suffering - romantic, sexual, emotional - were routinely minimized or coded. The line reads like a survival tactic: if the world won’t recognize your injury, translate it into a damage it’s forced to understand. Subtext: the wound is intimate, maybe humiliating, but its consequence is as measurable as whiplash. Weeks, not days. Not melodrama - prognosis.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Highsmith, Patricia. (2026, January 15). I only know it takes weeks to recover, as if one had been in a car accident. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-know-it-takes-weeks-to-recover-as-if-one-159325/
Chicago Style
Highsmith, Patricia. "I only know it takes weeks to recover, as if one had been in a car accident." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-know-it-takes-weeks-to-recover-as-if-one-159325/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I only know it takes weeks to recover, as if one had been in a car accident." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-only-know-it-takes-weeks-to-recover-as-if-one-159325/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



