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Motherhood Quote by Agnes Macphail

"I owed it to my father that I was elected to Parliament in the first place, but I owed it to my mother that I stuck it out once I got there"

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Macphail’s line slips a whole political origin story into a neat, almost mischievous accounting of debts. “Elected” is framed as something granted: the father as gatekeeper, sponsor, network. In early-20th-century politics, that’s not just family pride; it’s the infrastructure of legitimacy. For a woman entering a male institution, even getting on the ballot could depend on a man’s standing, resources, or reputational cover. She names that reality without bitterness, which is part of the rhetorical finesse: she’s not begging to be seen as self-made, she’s telling you how power actually works.

Then she pivots to “stuck it out,” and the temperature changes. This isn’t about access, it’s about endurance - the unglamorous stamina required to survive Parliament’s grind and its casual cruelty toward outsiders. By crediting her mother for persistence, she quietly reassigns political virtue from the public sphere to the domestic one. The mother isn’t a sentimental mascot; she’s the source of discipline, grit, and maybe a kind of moral stubbornness that outlasts applause.

The subtext is gendered and strategic: men may open the door, but women teach you how to stay standing once the room starts testing you. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the mythology of lone genius. Macphail, a pioneering Canadian MP, makes clear that breakthroughs are rarely solitary. They’re assembled - from patronage, from upbringing, from the hard, often invisible labor of being made tough enough to keep showing up.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Macphail, Agnes. (2026, January 15). I owed it to my father that I was elected to Parliament in the first place, but I owed it to my mother that I stuck it out once I got there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-owed-it-to-my-father-that-i-was-elected-to-166890/

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Macphail, Agnes. "I owed it to my father that I was elected to Parliament in the first place, but I owed it to my mother that I stuck it out once I got there." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-owed-it-to-my-father-that-i-was-elected-to-166890/.

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"I owed it to my father that I was elected to Parliament in the first place, but I owed it to my mother that I stuck it out once I got there." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-owed-it-to-my-father-that-i-was-elected-to-166890/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Agnes Macphail (March 24, 1890 - February 13, 1954) was a Politician from Canada.

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