"I personally think we developed language because of our deep need to complain"
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The intent isn’t to dunk on humanity so much as to expose our emotional engine. Complaint, in Tomlin’s universe, isn’t merely negativity; it’s a social technology. We complain to signal taste, enforce norms, and test intimacy. The subtext is that civilization runs on tiny frictions - and that our richest vocabulary often blooms around what’s broken, missing, late, overpriced, or disrespectful. If you’ve ever had a friend text you a screenshot just to say “Can you believe this?” you’re living inside the premise.
Context matters: Tomlin comes out of American comedy that treats neurosis and grievance as vernacular art, from stand-up to sketch to her famously sharp characters. The line also anticipates a culture where complaint has become content - reviews, callouts, rants, comment sections - a public square built less for praise than for processing annoyance in community. The humor works because it flatters us and indicts us at the same time: we’re eloquent, yes, but often in the service of being displeased.
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Tomlin, Lily. "I personally think we developed language because of our deep need to complain." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-personally-think-we-developed-language-because-26259/.
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"I personally think we developed language because of our deep need to complain." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-personally-think-we-developed-language-because-26259/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



