"I pick good women, but I haven't had any luck with my men"
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The intent is half joke, half verdict. Arden isn’t claiming she can’t spot character. She’s saying the men in her orbit - partners, suitors, executives, society’s gatekeepers - are where the system breaks down. “Luck” is doing a lot of work: it lets her critique men without sounding bitter, and it hints at the larger reality that women, even wealthy ones, were forced to treat marriage and male authority as a kind of gamble. You can curate your staff; you can’t fully curate a world run by men who believe they’re entitled to run you, too.
In context, it reads as a coded power statement from a woman who built an empire by selling femininity while refusing to be subordinate. The line mocks the romantic myth that the “right man” is the ultimate prize. Her real allegiance is to women as the reliable infrastructure of success - workers, clients, allies. Men, in Arden’s formulation, are the variable: charming, influential, unpredictable, and too often not up to the standard women are expected to meet every day.
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Arden, Elizabeth. (2026, January 16). I pick good women, but I haven't had any luck with my men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-pick-good-women-but-i-havent-had-any-luck-with-135376/
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"I pick good women, but I haven't had any luck with my men." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-pick-good-women-but-i-havent-had-any-luck-with-135376/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







