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Life & Wisdom Quote by Frederick Douglass

"I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence"

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Douglass frames selfhood as a high-stakes moral technology: tell the truth about who you are and what you believe, even if it makes you a target. The line isn’t motivational wallpaper; it’s a calculus of costs written by someone who knew exactly what ridicule can escalate into. In Douglass’s America, “being true to myself” didn’t mean quirky self-expression. It meant insisting on one’s full humanity in a culture engineered to deny it, and speaking with a voice the dominant order insisted you shouldn’t have.

The sentence works because it flips the usual fear hierarchy. Social humiliation is treated as survivable, almost trivial, while self-betrayal is depicted as corrosive and permanent. “Hazard” signals real risk, not just discomfort; “abhorrence” is even harsher, suggesting that the worst punishment is internal: becoming complicit in your own diminishment. Douglass isn’t arguing that community doesn’t matter. He’s arguing that there’s a line past which belonging becomes a bribe.

Subtextually, it’s also a rebuke to respectability politics and strategic silence. Douglass knew the pressure to soften demands, perform gratitude, or adopt a palatable persona for white audiences. He’s naming that bargain as spiritual rot. The rhetorical neatness of the parallel structure - ridicule of others versus abhorrence of self - turns an ethical stance into something like a personal doctrine. It’s persuasion by moral clarity: if you have to choose whose judgment to live with, choose the one you can’t escape.

Quote Details

TopicHonesty & Integrity
SourceFrederick Douglass, My Bondage and My Freedom (1855) — commonly cited source for the quotation.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Douglass, Frederick. (2026, January 15). I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-be-true-to-myself-even-at-the-hazard-26547/

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Douglass, Frederick. "I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-be-true-to-myself-even-at-the-hazard-26547/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-be-true-to-myself-even-at-the-hazard-26547/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Frederick Douglass (February 14, 1817 - February 20, 1895) was a Author from USA.

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