"I prefer to choose which traditions to keep and which to let go"
About this Quote
The intent is surgical. “Prefer” softens the blow; it’s a conversational word that avoids sounding like a manifesto. Then he drops the real provocation: traditions aren’t obligations, they’re candidates. The subtext is a refusal of guilt-based continuity, the kind that equates loyalty with repetition. Bikel isn’t rejecting roots so much as insisting that roots can be pruned. That’s a modern posture, but not a shallow one: it acknowledges that some customs carry wisdom, while others carry damage, exclusion, or mere inertia.
Context matters because Bikel’s career was built on performance - on selecting what to carry forward, what to interpret, what to leave offstage. In that sense, the quote doubles as an artist’s ethic and an immigrant’s ethic: identity as curation, not captivity. It’s also a subtle warning. Traditions that cannot survive scrutiny do not deserve immunity. Those that can will look stronger for having been chosen.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bikel, Theodore. (2026, January 18). I prefer to choose which traditions to keep and which to let go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-choose-which-traditions-to-keep-and-11808/
Chicago Style
Bikel, Theodore. "I prefer to choose which traditions to keep and which to let go." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-choose-which-traditions-to-keep-and-11808/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I prefer to choose which traditions to keep and which to let go." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-to-choose-which-traditions-to-keep-and-11808/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







