"I present myself to you in a form suitable to the relationship I wish to achieve with you"
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The subtext is blunt: you’re not meeting me, you’re meeting the version of me engineered for what I want from you. That “relationship I wish to achieve” makes desire the director and the audience an unwitting collaborator. It’s intimacy reframed as strategy. The line also implicates the listener: if I’m presenting, you’re receiving; if I’m tailoring, you’re demanding a size. Pirandello’s genius is that he doesn’t let either side off the hook. We co-produce each other’s masks.
Contextually, this sits squarely in his lifelong obsession with the split between “life” (messy, shifting) and “form” (the fixed roles society requires). In works like Six Characters in Search of an Author, characters chafe against the identities imposed on them; here, the speaker weaponizes that mechanism. The irony is chillingly modern: authenticity becomes just another performance, and the most honest thing you can say is that you’re curating the lie.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pirandello, Luigi. (2026, January 15). I present myself to you in a form suitable to the relationship I wish to achieve with you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-present-myself-to-you-in-a-form-suitable-to-the-79415/
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Pirandello, Luigi. "I present myself to you in a form suitable to the relationship I wish to achieve with you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-present-myself-to-you-in-a-form-suitable-to-the-79415/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I present myself to you in a form suitable to the relationship I wish to achieve with you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-present-myself-to-you-in-a-form-suitable-to-the-79415/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






