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"I printed a list of Irish names from the Internet and my husband, Dave, saw Finley on the list. I really liked it but didn't want to scare Dave off with my enthusiasm. So I used a little reverse psychology and let him think it was his idea"

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The funniest part isn’t the baby-name anecdote; it’s the casual admission that modern romance often runs on soft power. Holly Marie Combs frames the moment like a harmless sitcom beat: a printed list, a husband spotting a name, a shared decision. Then she flips it with that last clause, revealing the quiet choreography behind “mutual” choices. The humor lands because it’s recognizably petty and oddly affectionate: she’s not deceiving a stranger, she’s managing the emotional weather of a partnership.

The intent is less about bragging than about reclaiming agency in a space where women are still expected to be agreeable, not “too much,” even about something as intimate as naming a child. “Didn’t want to scare Dave off with my enthusiasm” is a miniature portrait of gendered expectation: her desire has to be toned down, translated into something he can comfortably own. Reverse psychology becomes a workaround for a familiar dynamic - the need for men to feel like the chooser, not the chosen-upon.

Context matters: this is an actress telling it like a backstage story, not a philosopher issuing a maxim. It has the breezy, confessional texture of celebrity interviews where domesticity is performed as relatability. But the subtext cuts sharper than the tone: even in loving marriages, power is negotiated through perception, timing, and the careful management of ego. The punchline is that the “his idea” seal of approval is still currency, and she knows exactly how to mint it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Combs, Holly Marie. (2026, January 15). I printed a list of Irish names from the Internet and my husband, Dave, saw Finley on the list. I really liked it but didn't want to scare Dave off with my enthusiasm. So I used a little reverse psychology and let him think it was his idea. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-printed-a-list-of-irish-names-from-the-internet-146213/

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Combs, Holly Marie. "I printed a list of Irish names from the Internet and my husband, Dave, saw Finley on the list. I really liked it but didn't want to scare Dave off with my enthusiasm. So I used a little reverse psychology and let him think it was his idea." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-printed-a-list-of-irish-names-from-the-internet-146213/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I printed a list of Irish names from the Internet and my husband, Dave, saw Finley on the list. I really liked it but didn't want to scare Dave off with my enthusiasm. So I used a little reverse psychology and let him think it was his idea." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-printed-a-list-of-irish-names-from-the-internet-146213/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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Holly Marie Combs (born December 3, 1973) is a Actress from USA.

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