"I put the weight on after we were together. I put on about 20 pounds when we got married, and people were flipping their lids. And then I put on more after that, and I've gone up and down since then"
About this Quote
The phrase “flipping their lids” is doing quiet work. It’s comic, colloquial, slightly dismissive - a way of shrinking a moral panic down to its true size: hysteria. Burke frames the reaction as disproportionate and performative, which flips the gaze back onto the watchers. They’re the ones out of control, not her.
There’s also a subtext of labor: acting isn’t just a craft here, it’s a constant negotiation with image-management, tabloid appetite, and the cruel math of “before and after” culture. “I’ve gone up and down since then” refuses the makeover narrative, the neat redemption arc where discipline restores the “right” body. Instead she offers maintenance, variability, time. The intent feels less like confession than reclamation: she’s naming the cycle out loud so it can’t be weaponized in whispers.
Quote Details
| Topic | Marriage |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burke, Delta. (2026, January 17). I put the weight on after we were together. I put on about 20 pounds when we got married, and people were flipping their lids. And then I put on more after that, and I've gone up and down since then. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-put-the-weight-on-after-we-were-together-i-put-53806/
Chicago Style
Burke, Delta. "I put the weight on after we were together. I put on about 20 pounds when we got married, and people were flipping their lids. And then I put on more after that, and I've gone up and down since then." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-put-the-weight-on-after-we-were-together-i-put-53806/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I put the weight on after we were together. I put on about 20 pounds when we got married, and people were flipping their lids. And then I put on more after that, and I've gone up and down since then." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-put-the-weight-on-after-we-were-together-i-put-53806/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





