"I realized at one point that David and I had not made a record together in almost 26 years and I thought that that was absurd because, first of all it had gone so fast, I didn't really realize, neither did David, that it had been that long"
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Time does what it always does to bands: it turns the messy, everyday reality into a mythology, then dares the people who lived it to keep up. Graham Nash calling a 26-year gap “absurd” isn’t just a scheduling note; it’s a small act of rebellion against the way legacy calcifies. He’s startled less by the number than by its stealth. “It had gone so fast” lands like an admission that adulthood, success, and old grievances can quietly replace the tactile habit of making work together.
The repetition and hedging - “at one point,” “I thought that that,” “I didn’t really realize” - reads like someone narrating a thought as it forms, not delivering a polished PR line. That matters. Nash frames the separation as accidental rather than ideological, shifting the emotional temperature from feud to drift. “Neither did David” pulls Crosby (or another David in his orbit, depending on the collaboration) into the same fog of disbelief, offering a kind of absolution: if no one was counting, no one was actively refusing.
Subtextually, it’s a musician confronting the brutal math of time left. In rock, reunions are often treated as commerce or nostalgia; Nash’s phrasing insists on something more intimate: creative partnership as a living relationship that requires maintenance. The quiet shock is the point. A quarter-century vanished without anyone even noticing - and that’s the real indictment, not of each other, but of how easily life crowds art out until the gap becomes a fact too big to ignore.
The repetition and hedging - “at one point,” “I thought that that,” “I didn’t really realize” - reads like someone narrating a thought as it forms, not delivering a polished PR line. That matters. Nash frames the separation as accidental rather than ideological, shifting the emotional temperature from feud to drift. “Neither did David” pulls Crosby (or another David in his orbit, depending on the collaboration) into the same fog of disbelief, offering a kind of absolution: if no one was counting, no one was actively refusing.
Subtextually, it’s a musician confronting the brutal math of time left. In rock, reunions are often treated as commerce or nostalgia; Nash’s phrasing insists on something more intimate: creative partnership as a living relationship that requires maintenance. The quiet shock is the point. A quarter-century vanished without anyone even noticing - and that’s the real indictment, not of each other, but of how easily life crowds art out until the gap becomes a fact too big to ignore.
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